Anger and lust have become so powerful that in some places even their own children are being killed. After hearing or reading the news that comes in the society every day, single young boys and girls have lost faith in marriage, due to which they have invented the idea of living together without marriage (live in relationship), which is not recognized by the Indian society. This relationship also does not last long and then the complaint of rape and cheating reaches the police and the Women’s Commission. By the way, degradation is increasing everywhere in the society, but I will try to analyze some of the reasons for the deterioration of this relationship.
Relationships damaged due to mobile phones
: The root of many problems is technology itself, in which the mobile phone has the biggest contribution. Most of the time, the girl’s mother asks how many times in 24 hours the girl’s in-laws’ house is being seen by the girl. The girl has not even come down from the doli yet when she gets a call asking what she gave you for showing your face, and after a while, whether you ate or drank something. Similarly, the series of conversations continues from one side to the other, then it reaches the advice, you do it this way. From here the interference begins, which does not stop anywhere. The woman wants to run her daughter’s house as she pleases, but when her daughter-in-law talks to her mother, the daughter-in-law is instructed not to interfere in our house. In all this, the girl does not leave her own house and does not adopt the in-laws’ house. Today, it is necessary to understand that, the girl leaves home, it takes time to understand the system when she comes to another house. This can be quickly fixed by the girl’s and the boy’s family by winning mutual love and trust. Where both parties consider themselves above each other, things get worse. These days, a new thing has come up that I will not be put down. People have forgotten that families live together, not in isolation. In fact, the less educated women who are idle, are busy with household chores, the children go to school or tuition and the man of the house goes to work, they themselves are busy watching reels on their mobile phones or talking to their friends all day long. If they have to do any household work, then understand that there will be a fight in the house. If the man is also tired of work, then understand that the Mahabharata can start in the house itself.
Money ruins relationships
An idle woman makes new demands on her husband every day. These desires have turned the love of the hearts into the color of artificial things. We should have every means of comfort and convenience, we should have something new than others. A man gets into a cycle of installments to fulfill these day and night. Spending more than income invites fights and quarrels. What happens is that in all this, mental stress increases and love for each other decreases, to fulfill this, a person seeks support outside the home, which gives birth to many illicit relationships.
Corporates are also responsible
Young couples working in corporates often go home only to sleep. A person who wakes up at 5 or 6 in the morning and works till 8-9 in the night. He will have nothing to do except get tired after going home. If there is a disagreement between the two, then there is no time to fix it. Finally, those couples share their situation with someone or the other at their workplace. Then from there, advice from people wearing the mask of help and benevolence starts. They are taught the law and trapped in their trap. By the time the reality comes out, it is too late. The house’s mess reaches the Panchayat or the court. Then the inner intention of the advisor is understood.
Declining importance of men:
Ever since the talk of equality of women has been going on and in some serials, men are constantly getting slapped. Since then, the life of good men has become forbidden. Most of the laws are one-sided. Furthermore, the police also find it easy to catch a man, the police are also afraid of women lest the work go wrong. Our laws are also like this, if a false case is registered, then even if the person fights his case and is acquitted in court, there is no punishment for the person who registered the false case. The work of the police and judges will be half done, if the government prosecutes the person who filed the false case.
What is Section 498A?:
Section 498A of the IPC, which has been amended by the new law BNS 85 and 86 are marked in the Act, on which if this case is registered and she does not go to jail, then understand that she has a great mercy and blessing of nature. However, now the Supreme Court also believes that the misuse of this section has increased a lot. The Honorable Court also issues guidelines at different times that direct arrest should be made only if the woman has been seriously injured due to any assault. The second thing is that if a complaint is received, then after investigating on 25 points, she should be arrested only if the complaint is found to be correct, whereas the police even today go straight to arrest.
A case is made only if the woman’s husband or any other relative forces the woman or a person associated with her to ask for any movable or immovable property or any money from her. The Supreme Court has made it clear that a case cannot be registered on any minor domestic quarrel which is a part of married life. The Supreme Court has clearly stated that asking a mother-in-law about household chores will not be considered violence. Another such petition, in which a bench of Justices J.B. Pardiwala and Manoj Mishra had heard the case against the husband and his relatives in 2024,
Anger and lust have become so powerful that in some places even their own children are being killed. After hearing or reading the news that comes in the society every day, single young boys and girls have lost faith in marriage, due to which they have invented the idea of living together without marriage (live in relationship), which is not recognized by the Indian society. This relationship also does not last long and then the complaint of rape and cheating reaches the police and the Women’s Commission. By the way, degradation is increasing everywhere in the society, but I will try to analyze some of the reasons for the deterioration of this relationship.
Relationships damaged due to mobile phones
: The root of many problems is technology itself, in which the mobile phone has the biggest contribution. Most of the time, the girl’s mother asks how many times in 24 hours the girl’s in-laws’ house is being seen by the girl. The girl has not even come down from the doli yet when she gets a call asking what she gave you for showing your face, and after a while, whether you ate or drank something. Similarly, the series of conversations continues from one side to the other, then it reaches the advice, you do it this way. From here the interference begins, which does not stop anywhere. The woman wants to run her daughter’s house as she pleases, but when her daughter-in-law talks to her mother, the daughter-in-law is instructed not to interfere in our house. In all this, the girl does not leave her own house and does not adopt the in-laws’ house. Today, it is necessary to understand that, the girl leaves home, it takes time to understand the system when she comes to another house. This can be quickly fixed by the girl’s and the boy’s family by winning mutual love and trust. Where both parties consider themselves above each other, things get worse. These days, a new thing has come up that I will not be put down. People have forgotten that families live together, not in isolation. In fact, the less educated women who are idle, are busy with household chores, the children go to school or tuition and the man of the house goes to work, they themselves are busy watching reels on their mobile phones or talking to their friends all day long. If they have to do any household work, then understand that there will be a fight in the house. If the man is also tired of work, then understand that the Mahabharata can start in the house itself.
Money ruins relationships
An idle woman makes new demands on her husband every day. These desires have turned the love of the hearts into the color of artificial things. We should have every means of comfort and convenience, we should have something new than others. A man gets into a cycle of installments to fulfill these day and night. Spending more than income invites fights and quarrels. What happens is that in all this, mental stress increases and love for each other decreases, to fulfill this, a person seeks support outside the home, which gives birth to many illicit relationships.
Corporates are also responsible
Young couples working in corporates often go home only to sleep. A person who wakes up at 5 or 6 in the morning and works till 8-9 in the night. He will have nothing to do except get tired after going home. If there is a disagreement between the two, then there is no time to fix it. Finally, those couples share their situation with someone or the other at their workplace. Then from there, advice from people wearing the mask of help and benevolence starts. They are taught the law and trapped in their trap. By the time the reality comes out, it is too late. The house’s mess reaches the Panchayat or the court. Then the inner intention of the advisor is understood.
Declining importance of men:
Ever since the talk of equality of women has been going on and in some serials, men are constantly getting slapped. Since then, the life of good men has become forbidden. Most of the laws are one-sided. Furthermore, the police also find it easy to catch a man, the police are also afraid of women lest the work go wrong. Our laws are also like this, if a false case is registered, then even if the person fights his case and is acquitted in court, there is no punishment for the person who registered the false case. The work of the police and judges will be half done, if the government prosecutes the person who filed the false case.
What is Section 498A?:
Section 498A of the IPC, which has been amended by the new law BNS 85 and 86 are marked in the Act, on which if this case is registered and she does not go to jail, then understand that she has a great mercy and blessing of nature. However, now the Supreme Court also believes that the misuse of this section has increased a lot. The Honorable Court also issues guidelines at different times that direct arrest should be made only if the woman has been seriously injured due to any assault. The second thing is that if a complaint is received, then after investigating on 25 points, she should be arrested only if the complaint is found to be correct, whereas the police even today go straight to arrest.
A case is made only if the woman’s husband or any other relative forces the woman or a person associated with her to ask for any movable or immovable property or any money from her. The Supreme Court has made it clear that a case cannot be registered on any minor domestic quarrel which is a part of married life. The Supreme Court has clearly stated that asking a mother-in-law about household chores will not be considered violence. Another such petition, in which a bench of Justices J.B. Pardiwala and Manoj Mishra had heard the case against the husband and his relatives in 2024,
